The top 9 sexual fantasies
The fantasies make it possible to compensate for a too well-ordered daily life, and the frustrations, conscious or unconscious, which accompany it. Making love in an elevator, with a person of the same sex or in a threesome… From the craziest to the most banal, what are the favourite fantasies of the French?
When we speak of sexual fantasy, we must think of an erotic scenario. Realistic or imaginary, it expresses conscious or unconscious desires. For a long time, fantasizing was taboo. No one was revealing the lustful scenes that were playing out in their imaginations. Today, men and women are more uninhibited about it and talk about it quite naturally. Having sexual fantasies is natural. It is also a sign that your sexuality is fulfilling.
Are Fantasies Important To Having An Orgasm?
Of course! The orgasm is triggered automatically when the excitement reaches a sufficient level. To raise this excitement, there are several possible channels: caresses on the body and on the sexual areas, the vision of the body or the gaze of the other, the scent of his skin or his intimate areas, the exchange of words exciting, the general mood, the movements of your body, and… the fantasies. The more you combine the stimuli, the easier it will be for your orgasm to occur.
Some people, men or women, only achieve orgasm by appealing to a specific fantasy that serves as a trigger to enjoyment.
Should We Talk About Our Fantasies?
If you are in a relationship, you can decide to keep them to yourself. Everyone has the right to their privacy and their little secret garden. However, if some of your fantasies are realistic, don’t hesitate to discuss them with your partner. Who knows, maybe he shares the same fantasies as you? Some couples take the opportunity to break their bed routine and add a little diversity to their sex life.
This may be your case, for a year since the Covid-19 took hold in our lives, new habits have been installed and every day is similar, especially for couples who work from home and who rub shoulders with each other. almost 24 hours a day. So why not spice up your antics a little by making your fantasies come true? Are they part of the top 9 that we have drawn up for you?
Sexual Fantasies Are Seasonal
On the other hand, it seems that summer is more conducive to sexual fantasies. Although we may think that making love is a good solution to warm up the winter temperatures, according to a survey, more than one in two French people (56%) make love “more often” during summer vacation. At the same time, 55% want to take advantage of the summer break to “fulfill their fantasies” and 57% “to indulge their impulses”. And you, are you more summer or winter?
Making love on the beach
Still on the theme of the place, 37% of French people imagine making love on a deserted beach. Nevertheless, between the sand which sticks, which itches and which can infiltrate in inappropriate places like the vagina or the opening of the urethra in the man, it is advised to be careful while wanting to realize this fantasy.
Making love in a public place
31% of French people (men and women alike) wish to make love in a public place. If some tried to do it after dark in the parks, with the curfew it is now more difficult to achieve, especially as the police patrols are more numerous. And we don’t advise you to try in broad daylight when indecent assault lurks.
Having sex with a stranger
Although women may be tempted to have sex with someone they don’t know, having sex with a stranger is still one of the greatest fantasies of men at 53%. Fantasy more difficult to achieve for over a year now between the curfew and the closure of bars and nightclubs, it is less easy to find a stranger with whom to end the evening.
This is the n ° 1 fantasy of the French. Whether it’s to spice up your sexually routine couple life or to have fun with two people at the same time, the threesome appeals to everyone. It attracts by the sensual hyperstimulation that one feels when imagining the different parts of the body touching, caressing and intertwining.
Domination and submission
According to a survey by Harris Interactive, the fantasy of domination makes women dream more. 33% of them want to be dominated, 34% want to have sex blindfolded and 25% want to be tied up or handcuffed. Precisely, men prefer to dominate than to be submissive, yet some women also like to have power over their partner and wish to control him during the sexual act.
Being taken by surprise while sleeping
Unanimously at 47%, both men and women want to be surprised by their partner during their sleep to make love. However, be sure to ask your friend if he or she is okay with it and to wake him up gently if you want to give it a try.
Give your partner several orgasms
It’s a fact! Men like to give pleasure to their partner and that he or she is reactive to their caresses. They believe that they are the only instigators of the relationship in their relationship and this is what pushes them to satisfy their partner at all costs. In any case, when the other is very excited, the man is even more so and it flatters him to be competent in bed.
Having a relationship with a person of the same sex when you are heterosexual
In this fantasy, you do not question your sexual orientation. It is simply heterosexual French people who break free from stereotypes and open up to sexual curiosity. They want to know what it feels like to be touched and fondled by a person of the same sex. So, have you ever thought about it?
Watching two women have sex
Another of the great fantasies of men is watching two women have sex. They are 49% to fantasize about it. Whether they participate or not, for them just the fact of seeing two female bodies intermingling and rubbing each other excites them to the highest point. Often amateurs of pornographic videos, they go from virtual to real with the erotic scene which is played out directly before their eyes. They thus feel privileged.